For You I Will

Sometimes its really amazing how someone can read your mind like there is no barrier in between each and every thoughts. Before you can say it out, he had already gave you an answer, made a decision or even done something for you.

I do not believe that people will do anything and everything for the one they love, there is definitely something that they will hold on to and never ever do it, no matter for anyone, not even themselves.

Today, "FOR YOU I WILL", 1 simple phrase, 4 words, 12 letters, make me realise that... There is nothing call IMPOSSIBLE. Be it just a mere thought, just trying out and perhaps it does not end up the way we wanted it to be, but the important thing is, the THOUGHT and COURAGE of doing it.

For my stubbornness, for my perfectionism, for my principle, you are willing to. At this moment, asking: "Is is worth it?" sounds like a stupid question from a fool. Perhaps, stop asking questions, just loving you with all my heart is a better answer to all that you had done and will do in the future.

Its more than words to describe what I feel, I guess using your phrase

You are the best thing I ever had in my life

will be a better way to show you what I feel because, we both feel the same way.

I will be by your side, no matter what happen in the end. If there is anything I can do to make you suffer less, I will. For now, I will just smile and promise... I will smile everyday.

If you ask me one day, what words are better than I LOVE YOU, the answer will be

FOR YOU I WILL

Confession of A Princess

I know sometimes I always jump into some worst case scenario, thinking that letting go/giving up is the best solution for the current situation. I can never scratch that silly thought out of my mind in the past, but things are really different this time.

There are so many things to remind me how important you are. There are just too many memories that will make me smile to myself when I am flashing back.

I know things will work out through sharing, just like it always does. Walking through all these together, being honest to each other and understanding everything that either one is going through, all the feelings, be it positive or negative.

Listening to your voice is the best cure to the relapse of my phobia. I just hope we can make it through this time without getting into any fight, like how we go through our problems in the last 4 months. Smile is the thing that we brought to each other, I hope we won't lose it, and not having a smile when we go to sleep is so not in our dictionary.

Maybe, you will be asking, why post something so personal? Yea, it is personal, but can serve as a reminder to many people reading this post that, there is still one more thing before jumping into any conclusion or making any heartbreaking decision, ie:

SHARE

Thank You

Even though I had been through times when I lost hope in some people, times of heart-break and felt like being left out, I really feel blissful to have a some friends who really loves me.

Even if we do not chat much, did not keep in contact for some time, I will still be remembered and things never feels awkward when we met. I will not forget how they lent me a helping hand when I was down, will not forget all the advice they gave me when I am being emotional, will not forget what we gossiped, will not forget all the moments we spent together.

Friends like you will be kept by my side forever. All the people I call dear, I call darling, I call sis, I call gor~ Really, thank you for being in my life.

Sometimes, I might feel lonely seeing people hanging out with a big bunch of friends, but seriously, among all those friends, how many can they share their secrets and problems with? Thinking of this, I really feel lucky to have all my dears and darlings to listen to my problems and secrets, all my gor and sis to understand my feelings. Thank You~

p/s: The source of this random post >>>
Chiam Shien Yin: You better go on9 everyday and tell me when you have any problems, I will be troubling you with my problems even if you are in UK!

100 days~

Read this really meaningful note on FB by a guy named Lim Yee Wee (Dunno him though, just state down his name since I do not know if I will violate the copyright. LOL).

刚搬进这个房子的那天，她整理完全部的东西，最后拿出一个非常精致的玻璃瓶，对他说道：“亲爱的，3个月内，你让我每哭一次，我就往里面加一滴水，代表我的眼泪。要是它满了，我就收拾我的东西离开这房子。”

　　男人不以为然，有点纳闷：“你们女人也太神经质了吧！就这么不信任我么，那还有什么可谈？我让你搬过来和我一起生活，是为了照顾你，不是欺负你的！”

　　女人说：“好男人不会让心爱的女人受一点点伤，我会记录下我为什么流泪，不会是莫名其妙的。”

　　“那好吧，抱抱～！”

　　两个月后，女人把那瓶子给男人看，说：“已经满一半了，在两个月内，我们是否有必要查看一下是什么问题呢？”说完递了一本精致的小笔记本给男人。

　　男人没有马上打开来看，他的表情里有一丝惊讶，还有点哭笑不得的意味，似乎没有想到女人的眼泪可以这么多，盛得这么快，又觉得女人是小题大作了，但是很可爱。

　　他打开本子开始看，惊讶女人怎么写了那么多。男人一边看着，女人一边说话：“第一次吵架，是在第3天，而且还是一大早，你刚醒来有点懵懂，挤的牙膏不知道怎么的飞到镜子上了，那是我刚擦干净的，我说你连挤牙膏都不会啊，你就来脾气了，然后吵起来……”

　　男人沉默着。女人继续说：“有天晚上我让你帮洗下那几件衣服，因为水太凉，你只顾着玩游戏迟迟不肯动，后来吵起来，我很失望你忘记了我的生理期不能碰冷水，委屈……”

　 　“还有一次，我很累了，你还不肯去洗澡睡觉，明明知道我特敏感，有点神经衰弱，哪怕一点点敲键盘的声音都能让我难以入睡，我一情急就说了你这个人自私的 话，我们吵起来，你说了一大堆辩论自己不自私自私的人是我之后甩门出去上网通宵，我打你电话你没拿我又不敢自己一个人去找你……”

　　女人这时候有点激动了，眼球开始泛红，说：“还有一次……”男人打断了她的话，“亲爱的，别说了……”

　　沉默…长久的沉默……

　　还是女人打破了沉默：“是不是我们真的不合适？如果是这样，结婚了还是会离婚吧？我们的个性都那么强，谁都不肯退让。”

　　气氛有点尴尬。

　 　本子里记录的事情都是那么细小的事情，每次吵架的原因都是那么的简单，男人看着这本子，似乎在体会着女人的心情，大男子是不会去计较这些小事，原本觉得 每次和好之后都没事，女人就爱拿这些来说事，但是当他认真去看的时候，他也开始难过了，女人很细心，把事件、心情都写了，还自己总结了一下原因。原来最微 小的事情累积起来是很让人痛苦的，他看得出，女人从失望慢慢变成绝望。

　　他想，大概是因为每次吵架，两人都是喜欢在吵架中找出对方不爱自己的证据。他突然意识到，这是个很严重的问题！而且每次吵架，双方都是在心情不稳定的时候，就是还有别的烦心事的时候，把不好的情绪带进了两个人的生活里。

　　“亲爱的别难过……”男人终于说话了：“我请个假，我们去旅游吧。”

　　他们去了第一次一起旅游的地方，太多美好的回忆被唤起，原来彼此是那么深深地爱着对方，这时的女人特别温柔，这时的男人特别体贴。

　　“亲爱的，你还认为我们结婚的话，会离婚么？”男人问。

　　“我想不是我们不合适，像现在，我们是那么快乐，一切都那么美好，可是一回到我们的现实生活里，为什么就变了呢？”

　　“亲爱的，难道我们现在不在现实里吗？”

　　“……”女人楞了。

　　“因为那时候我们都把注意力集中在负面的事物上并且放大了那些负面的心情。并且喜欢找对方不爱自己的证据，然后彼此个性都很倔不肯服输太要面子。”

　　女人觉得确实是如此，原来，双方只是需要一点点忍让，一点点包容。男人带她回顾这初次旅游的地点，是真的用心了，想起那时候他们在一起还不久，为了让对方觉得自己好，都表现出自己最好的一面。

　　“还有半个月，如果那瓶子还是半瓶，那么，亲爱的，嫁给我吧！”

　　女人钻进男人怀里笑开了颜

　 　后来他们结婚了。很少再吵架。如果粗心的男人不小心碰掉了杯子，女人不会再开口就骂，因为在女人开口之前，男人已经在道歉，说对不起，都是我不小心的， 赔两个给老婆！老婆尽管去选你喜欢的！女人就笑了，然后说，不用买啦，反正还有杯子，再说也不都是你的错，怪我自己没把杯子放好，让你碰到啦！

　　原来真的没有合适不合适，只有珍惜不珍惜，能一起走一起进步是幸福的！

Chose to post this up today because its a very special day. <3

Warning! PDA after this~ =p

There are times where we will feel that we are from totally different world, and some people might say that we are not meant for each other because of some different lifestyle. But I choose to care less about what other people say because its a two people thing.

The most important thing is I know how much you treasure me and you know how important you are to me.

There might be jealousy involved when we are dealing with something but I am really glad that we always open up to talk over it. Trust is not something easy to give so both of us must be proud that we are able to do so, even though it is just bit by bit. Yes, there are times when we feel insecure, we feel jealous, but just like what they said:

A little jealousy in a relationship is healthy, it is always nice to know someone's afraid to lose you.

Trust takes time to be built, and I know we can do it. ^^

Really thank you for being so understanding, sometimes I might turn you down on things, I might hurt your feelings when I threw my temper, but still, you tolerated with me and return all these not with scoldings not blames, but a cute smile. This means a lot to me. The evidence? See how you overcome my phobia? =p I used to think that tolerating doesn't help much but it is just because I had not met someone who can see it can understand it. But now, I believe in tolerating, understanding and communicating. ^^

Just hope every couple will tolerate with each other, just like the last sentence of the story up there, there is nothing about suitable or not, its only whether you cherish each other. ^^

(Sorry for PDA <3)>

我们该分手吗？

女孩终于鼓起勇气对男孩说：“我们分手吧。”
“为什么？”男孩问。
“厌倦了，就不需要理由了。”

一个晚上，男孩只玩线上游戏不说话，女孩心里也越来越凉了。
‘连挽留都不会表达的情人，能给我怎么样的快乐？’
过了很久，男孩终于忍不住问：“怎样做，你才能留下来？”
“回答我一个问题，如果你能达到我心里面想要的答案，我就留下来。”
“要是我非常喜欢悬崖上的一朵花，而你去摘的结果是百分百的死亡，你会不会摘给我？”女孩接着说。
“明天早晨告诉你答案好吗？”
女孩的心顿时灰了下来。

早晨醒来，男孩已经不在，只有一张写满字的纸，压在温热的牛奶杯下。
第一行，女孩的心已经凉透。

“亲爱的，我不会去摘，但请容许我说出不去摘的理由，好吗？
你只会用电脑打字，却总会把程序弄得一塌糊涂，然后对着键盘哭，我要留着手指帮你整理程序。
你出门时总是忘记带钥匙，我要留着双脚跑回来帮你开门。
喜爱旅游的你，在自己的城市也常常迷路，我要留着眼睛为你带路。
每个月‘好朋友’来临时，你总是全身冰凉还肚子疼，我要留着掌心帮你温暖小腹。
你不爱出门，担心你会患上自闭症，我要留着嘴巴驱赶你的寂寞。
你总是爱叮着电脑，眼睛都被糟蹋得不是很好了，我要好好活着，等你老了还能帮你修剪指甲。
我还要帮你拔掉懊恼的白头发，拉着你的手在海边享受美好的阳光，和柔软的沙滩。
我要告诉你，花的颜色就像你青春的脸。
所以，在我不能确定有人比我更爱你之前，我不想去摘那朵花。”

女孩的泪滴在纸上，但她抹干净眼泪，继续往下看。

“亲爱的，如果你已经看完了，而答案还让你满意的话，请你开门吧。
我正站在外面，手里提着你最爱吃的鲜奶面包。”

女孩拉开门，看见他的脸紧张得像个孩子一样，只会把拎着面包的周在他眼前晃。
女孩终于明白，这就是在爱情里或生活里，被平静的幸福包围着时，所透露出的平凡爱意。

100

短短的一百天，能做些什么呢？

也许就跟平常一样，
糊里糊涂的过日子，
或忙碌的努力拚命，

也许在伤心中度过，
或者活在欢笑声中。

我用了一百天的时间，
认识了一个人，
让我。。。
找回了快乐的自己，
做了一些疯狂的事情，
满足了自己很多的欲望，
重新享受爱与被爱的滋味。

一百天的分享，
一百天的倾听，
一百天的关心，
虽然会很短暂，
但已让我爱上。
未来的第几个一百天，
希望只会越来越爱你。

也谢谢你，
还记得
所说过，
做过的，
每一件事情。
爱你也许真的不需要理由。♥

A Memorable Birthday~!

Tadaa~ I am finally 19-year-old, cannot laugh at people saying I am still 18. 1 more year before I turn 20. >< Well, this year, my birthday is really a happy one. I had not been having such happy birthday since the last birthday four years back then when I threw a birthday party at my house.

Perhaps, birthday is not really that important but it is still special, a day when you are born to this world, a day when you start your journey of life. No matter how you live your life, you will not have a chance to if there is no such a day known as YOUR BIRTHDAY. Hmmm, why making it sounds so serious and complicated... >< Anyway, for me, I just have a little wish which is to spend this day with my love ones, and this year, I did it. ^^ My parents, my sisters and my boyfriend.

9th of July:

Had been looking forward to this day and I was not disappointed by even a tiny bit. Baby had planned it well and there is just 3 words to describe it -- SWEET LIKE MAD

Baby and I chosen karaoke to spend our time before dinner. We went to Redbox Gardens for the buffet lunch and seriously had a great time there. Its like almost a month since I went to sing k so yea, we enjoyed ourselves~ ^^ Singing all the songs with baby was just sweet~ =D

Us at Redbox~

And after Singing k, this baby started giving me surprise. The blur blur baby made me believed in his lies and suddenly appear outside the car with 2 big creatures. And OMG, its my CUPIDO and CUPIPI! I seriously never expect him to buy me those because... Refer to one of my post. Seriously, damn touched k? I know I sounded like a little girl loving all these soft toys but they are seriously super cute and I waited for like a year d! What more when they are given to you by your beloved? Cos they represent love~! Thank you baby!!!!!! Will take photo of them after they took their bath~ ^^

Then, we had dinner at Bintang Revolving Restaurant @ Federal Hotel~ Baby gave me 3 choices but in the end I chose a place which is not in the 3 choices. Feel so evil. =p Overall, the food was ok, not to say very nice but still worth it 'cos of the atmosphere and not-bad-view. ^^ Most importantly is, went there with baby~ ^^

Then, we were supposed to go Ampang Look-Out-Point. But, my parents were nagging for going out til very late (it was only 9 plus...) and the traffic was jam like mad. Seriously, stuck in a dunno-what-is-going-on jam for like 15 mins, basically, there were jam in any road we used. So... Gave up since I promised mum to be back by 11. >< Not disappointed though because that was just an extra bonus of the night and I had already seen the night view of KL in the restaurant. ^^

Then, my baby was so busy with messages when he was driving me home. Luckily his driving skills is good enough... LOL! That pig dunno why suddenly looks so emo, so I thought he was just too tired. 4 hours of karaoke session by 2 person only was not easy le. Haha.

Anyway, reached home and had baby to stay at my house til at least 12 am to countdown my birthday. ^^ Audrey was there too cos since last year she will be staying over at my place to countdown with me too. =p When I went upstairs to find my mum, she passed me a present from my aunt. Its a romper~ (I always thought I can never fit into one because of my super weird proportion, like what baby said: 30:70... >< But this 1 was just nice le~ Really thank you! Haha.)

Audrey made me try that romper and that 2 devil (audrey and baby) were busy chatting. I thought they were insulting each other again. LOL! But, after I am done fitting into that romper and wanted to show them, I WAS SHOCKED~ Guess what, they are carrying a cake outside my room and singing Birthday song! Even my mum was part of it. ><"

Seriously, it was really very sweet! To have you love ones planning a surprise for you and feel more sweet after knowing the process of planning. I Love You Mummy, Audrey and Shaun! And baby, you are really crazeeeee in a super good and sweet way!!!!!!! I am really happy to be blur~! It really works because I seriously did not suspect a single thing. ><

Me and baby!!!!! And the cake~ ^^

Me and Audrey!!!!!! Love you my Sis~! Really do not know how u can keep this from me for like a week~!

Ohya, And when I took out my Cupido and Cupipi from their bags, I found something seriously TOUCHING! Something that is a lot better than a birthday card even if its just 2 pieces of paper. It still feel sweet no matter how many time I read it. ^^

10th July: Birthday~

Forced Audrey to say out their plans and sleep at 2 something, near 3 am. @.@ But it was the sweetest night ever I can say. ^^

Went to Sunway Pyramid to watch Twilight: Eclipse with Audrey~ The movie was ok, more to romance and less action, not like what we saw in the trailer. Even the battle was a bit too erm... Fast? Edward is pity in this ep, that's what I felt la. But nvm~ Jacob is handsome~! =p


Then, went to Genting for buffet dinner~! And baby followed us there!!! =p First genting trip with family plus baby! Though not a really great trip, not a really great dinner but then its special. Really very special and again, sweet (I am sorry if I use the word sweet too many times, but then its the truth). ^^ And that is really one of my best birthday present. =p

Baby~!

Me and Family~!

T.R.U.T.H

Nobody is perfect and hence you can never find someone who is totally fulfill the criteria of a perfect partner. There is something that you will need to try to accept for you to get something else that you want. Is the thing that you want worth you accepting something that you will not accept? In other words, is the person worth your love?

Maybe, people will say that love is love, there is nothing about worth it or not. Love him and you should not be calculating too much. Love is not a mathematics question, no calculation should be involved, there is nothing about who sacrifice more and hence deserve more love. Its only about TOLERATING and how to make the relationship work in a two-way manners. It is just like crossing a bridge where only one person can go across at a time. If you do not want to tolerate and let the other person cross first, neither of you can cross. The bridge will eventually break due to the pressure and weight, and now, nobody can go through. You may feel that why should you be that noble and be the one who tolerate, but remember, he or she might be tolerating too, it is only you did not realise. Even some small things like letting you choose what you want to have for dinner is a kind of tolerating, though you may think that he or she cannot make up his own mind. This is because they know that there is nothing much they can do to make you happy, and since tolerating you and let you choose they things you like can make you smile, they will do it.

Someone says, Love is Blind. Even you did not accept, but because you love the person, you tend to focus on your love and ignore the other issues that you can neither tolerate or accept. But, in a long term, when both of you gets closer and there is not much fear of losing each other, problems will come. At this moment, I guess what comes into play is not only tolerating, but also RESPECT. Respect each others' choice and decision they made for their life. You can go into their life, but not interrupt their life. You might be important in their life, but you are not the only one present. There are many other parties that they will need to take into account, like friends. And if the person is willing to tolerate, even not until the extend you expected or hope, it is already enough and worth you respecting. What more if their words are kept and what you said are remembered. Moreover, if you already know in the beginning that complaining will not make much difference, why not you try respecting? Respect does not mean support. It is just like two rough surfaces, you know you cannot remove the friction unless you make the surfaces extremely smooth. If making the surface smooth is impossible, why not add a lubricant? It will not remove all the friction, but at least some.

Perhaps, many including me may think that in the beginning of a relationship, everyone can make a lot of promises and tolerate a lot, but this will fade with time. They tend to not remember what they said, expecting you to tolerate and understand. For some, I think is because they really take things for granted since they are immature. There are also some people who knows that there is something that is being built with time, TRUST. They trust each other and know deep down in the heart that they know whatever they are doing, the another half will understand. Sometimes, this may be a good thing, provided they do not take this trust for granted and starting to betray their partner. Time can prove everything, its only whether the truth is the one you wanna see or the one that hurt you to the maximum. But, it is just part of your life and at least, you know the truth. You can know that whether your insecure feelings are merely because you do not have enough confidence in yourself and your partner or really because your partner do not worth your trust.

Everyone hurt a lot of people in their life and everyone is hurt by many people too. Phobia will be developed, heart will have cracks here and there. However, you learned lessons which you can't find on any books. I know this sounds so much like the line we always write in our essays back in primary or secondary school, but yea, you learned something which you will remember for your life because you were once very down but you stood up again. I can only say that your next one will be slightly more lucky because you learned your mistake in the past relationship and hence, will try not to repeat it. Also, you will learn how to look from other people's point of view and try to UNDERSTAND why they have such decision. You will be mad, you will be disappointed, but when you make an effort to understand, you will know that you should not be angry over anything and blame anyone for that because sometimes they do not mean to make the decision or the decision might be the best for them at the moment. (sorry for stealing some1's line~ =P).

Lastly, Love with you HEART. Your heart can feel things that you may not be able to see or hear. Your mind might be affected by the words others say, be it offending or so sweet that melts you, but your heart is always the one who tell you what exactly you feel.

If you still want maths:

Love = Tolerating + Respect + Understanding + Trust + Heart

Random Thoughts... ♥

I know I am not some one who can be right beside you when you really need me,
I know I am not some one who can give you the right advise you need,
I know I am not some one who can give you everything you want,
I know I am not some one who can accept everything that you do,

But...

I only know that I am always there to support you because I love you.

The love...
Might not be that deep now
Might not cure everything
Might not make us forget about everything that bother us
Might not allow us to do anything we want

But...

Because of this love,

There will always be some one for us to turn to when we are sad
There will always be some one for us to share our happiness with
There will always be some one for us to hug when we need some warmth
There will always be some one for us to throw our temper when we are mad
There will always be some one for us to say... I LOVE YOU.

The 2nd Surprise- Hero

Someone told me...

Mr.Great will make sure you are happy everyday because seeing you happy is my happiness. I will also make sure you do not use the word 'force to' anymore...

I do not know since when, there will always be a smile on my face when I am reading messages, there is a name that I will mention to my parents every time I talked to them, there is a person that I will always think about, there is a person whom I always talk to when I am down.

And now, though it seems to be unbelievable... For I said I do not want to get into a relationship this early... I am, with him now~ With the person who was so silly, calling me out for supper in the middle of the night, making me losing my sleep and ended up in Broga Hill; driving up from USJ to Semenyih and bring me to McD for Ice-cream; making me into his alarm clock and made me feel guilty for waking him up; satisfying my every crave for food and willingly becoming my Ogawa~

Shaun~ My silly boyfriend!

Hope this silly will continue to bring smile on my face and make my every day a happy day~! Love you~!

*p/s: Silly, I love your cute cute smile too! So, this tomato will try all her best to make sure you are happy too!

我是幸福的

有时候，真的不知道自己想要的是什么。

明明觉得已经放下的，却好像还没放开手。

明明觉得已经可以释怀的，却发现好像还恨着。

明明觉得不可能的，却忽然觉得有一丝丝的感觉，一点点的希望。

明明觉得有可能的，却忽然发现只是一种错觉，根本就没有那种感觉。


现在的头脑真的像是打了死结，怎么都解不开。

也许真的该剪了那个结，什么都不去想，时间到了再好好整理思绪，重新出发。


其实，只想被一个爱我的人好好地爱着，明白我想要的是什么。

也想被一个人宠爱着，疼爱着，没有束缚， 因为可以彼此信任。

但是，真的很难。



其实现在也不错，看着身边的人一个一个幸福起来，自己也会不自觉地笑了。

也许，幸福不一定是要自己拥有的，别人拥有的幸福也会感染身边的人。

所以，幸福的人请继续幸福，因为，看到你们幸福，我才是最幸福的人。^^

EX's Gathering

This is definitely an EX's gathering, meaning? When 2 pairs of ex couples meet up. LOL. Story begins when Florrie msged me, asking me to go to a talk organised by her church ie City Harvest Church in Sunway. I was considering about it 'cos the topic was interesting, about relationship, difference between men and women. And, realised that Kok Choon, Florrie's ex KC is going to attend too. I realised 'cos:

Florrie: "What will happen if you meet Mun Hon (aka my EX) again?".
Me: "Err, I dunno? But I am really curious to know. Why?"
Florrie: "I am asking KC to go and he intended to bring Mun Hon."
Me: " That is sooooo interesting."

So, in the end, I went, after rushing my reports. (Finally...)

Me and Florrie, that Siao Zha Bo went to cut her hair til damn short... Nice though, maybe I should try? NO.... Face to round. LOL.

Basically, I feel that MH did not really exist as I did not actually wanna look at him? Haha. No la, just very weird. I can only proudly announced that, "I PUT HIM DOWN ALREADY!" Not feeling sad, not feeling like crying though I thought I would. In fact, was smiling all the while. ^^

But, A bit disappointed with *ahem*... Next time, please at least show some respect for other's religion. You can be not singing with them, not listening to their prayers, but please, do nothing esp playing with HP!!! Even some1 told me, "He is still the same huh?". YES! Same! So no hope d~ LOL.

Anyway, the talk... Interesting~ ^^ The speaker ie Pasteur Pat (I think so...) started off with difference between men and women. I can't really remember exactly the content though. Only remember him saying

"Women do not expect men to do exactly like what you are doing because, they do not have a brain~"

No offense guys... Just trying to say that men do not think as much as women do. ^^
Also, girls tends to control her bf or husband. *Kok Choon looking at me and give me an evil grin...*. Did the Pasteur say do not manipulate a guy? I do not remember but I think yea... LOL.

And there are basically 4 things that a women must remember when dealing with a guy.

1. Say your request for more than ONE time:
Guys when they listen to something you said, it goes into, for example their right brain and "Oh, Okay." But their left brain will respond. "Did you hear anything? Nothing." Continue with DOTA. LOL. So, repeat~

2. Watch your mouth.
Do not actually scold them or insult them, you will not be able to encourage or motivate them.

3. Appreciate the dumbest thing he ever did.
He gave this example:
One day, he went to wash his dishes and realised that the dishwasher was full with cleaned plates. So, he is in a dilemma... Finally, he took out everything and put in his dishes. His wife responded by saying, "Oh, you *something (fill in the blanks, I can't remember~)* monkey~".
4. Do not keep him guessing? (I think so?)
It's really something very common. For instance, venue for dinner:

Guy: "Where do you want to go for dinner?"
Girl: "Awww, anything~" *Please choose Japanese food*
Guy: "Okay, let's go to have some western food."
Girl: "..."

There goes a quarrel~
Recommendation:
GIRLS! Please tell them what exactly you want, your birthday present, choice of dinner, what do you want from him etc. Because, guys are like CHIMPANZEE~ They seldom guess correctly! ^^

That's basically what I remembered but listening to this talk with my EX just make this talk amazing. LOL.

Off topic:
I went to Memory Lane and Parkson to check for my dear Cupido couple's price. AGAIN. OMG, it went up to RM109.90 each! How long do I need to wait before I can actually own them??? T.T I had been waiting for half a yr!!! MUM... DAD... I WANT!!! Y.Y (I feels like a little girl...)

And speaking about soft toy, can any1 tell me what this toy of mine is? ^^Tomato? Apple? And that cute little girl is my coussie~ Looks like me? ^^ (Definitely not praising myself that I am cute. I am not that SS, yet...)

Sweetness during Audrey's Party~

Sweet sweet couples spotted during Audrey's Birthday party~ Finally cousins are bringing back their another half, not only seeing their sweet photos on FB anymore, not just listening to their stories. I felt warm though it reminded me of many regrets and plans that can never be carried out or made me feel that I was supposed to be one of them with my ex. Anyway, I am just happy! Hope they can be sweet all the way~

My New BF~

Ka Eng and Harn Jiat~


Audrey and Melissa


Cherrie and Chun Ye


Serine and Michael~ Finally together lo~ I heart this pic!!!

The real 3 pairs of couples~ So sweet lo... I jealous o~~~

Not really la, I am not ready for a relationship yet, and I am tired to start a relationship now. Relationship-phobia. Haha. I am looking for a bf who can really understands me and be the 1 I rely on, not the 1 relying or me, all in all, stronger n tougher than me. Although I had actually met 1, that's a mission impossible so... Just stop thinking about relationship~ Feel the sweetness from the couples around me, getting hug from my friends, love from family and that is more than enough~ So, 你们都要幸福哦！

Flowers

Sometimes, I wonder why people loves flowers. (I love flowers too, esp champagne colour roses, I dunno why, I just do not like red roses...) Flowers may look nice, smells nice when it blossoms. But sometimes people tend to forget about taking care of them and they wilt, and became nothing. Even when you handle them with care, they will die off, perhaps due to the hot weather, too much water etc. Most people might just throw it away, maybe some will dry them and store as dry flower. Their life spans are so short that you can only enjoy the view and pleasant smell they brought to you for a short while.

It feels just like love. When love started to grow, you will not know how fast it can be. Sometimes, it took years, sometimes, just a few days. When love blossoms, it is sweet and you feel like you have everything. You will get used to the sweetness, got tired of it and eventually, forgot about handling your love with care. Sometimes, your another half loves you too much, until you suffocate and there goes the love.

Just like dry flowers, love which had died off may be stored as a memory which can be took out once in a while to refresh your memories. You will sometimes regret for letting it slip off your hands so easily, but there is nothing you can do to revive it. It had gone...

Sometimes, love just seems worthless for people. They can just throw it away, remembering that they had loved before, and that's it. Life goes on with another new partner. For them, new other half is a better thing as they can try out more.

Perhaps, I am not a good gardener, I do not know how to take care of flowers. I just hope I can have a evergreen tree. When the leaves shed off, it will be replaced by new ones. Its just like when some of the love for me die off, it will be replaced by more love. There will always be leaves on the tree, just like what I am hoping for, always loving me, no matter what happened and what challenges we had.

Problem is, it is an ideal situation which will not happen in real life. I think?

p/s:
Sometimes, love became habit. But... What's wrong with habit? Loving some1 became a routine, caring for some1 became a habit, talking to some1 everyday became a basic necessity, I do not see any disadvantages. Perhaps, not interesting anymore?

结局里，没有日落，却有祝福。

这一切一切，真的只是习惯而已。就好像一枚戒指戴了好久好久，留了一个痕迹，也习惯了它的存在。忽然，你摘下了，下了好大的决心摘下了。明明在几天前，还好开心地向全世界炫耀，现在却收了起来，感觉上就像发了一场梦。

我真的发了一场梦，不知不觉就一年了，真的很快。梦里面，我爱过，哭过却很少感动过，最最最最感动的一次，是你为了我走了那三公里远的路，那时的你，真的很爱我，对不对？梦里面，我也很幸福的向所有人分享我的幸福，告诉他们，我真的很相信，他就是我要找的人。只是，梦的最后，我还是被你用所有爱在爱着吗？

不久前，才告诉了一个朋友，能找到一个我爱的人和爱我的人，真的不容易，但是我找到了，所以我想和他永远在一起。我们也说过，要一起白着头看日出日落，一起牵着对方的手走，就算是白发斑斑，还是一样。





只是，最美好的话，最浪漫的回忆，只留给了昨天。当不被爱着，再想继续也是徒劳。


今天，回去学校，以为可以看看你，分手前后，都没见过。真的没缘分吧，算准了时间却没见到。看着无似人非的学校，看着空荡荡的手指，看着空荡荡的操场，看着空荡荡的右手，少了温暖的手，哭了。离开时，我笑了，放下你，放开回忆，笑了。

我不像你，我没那么快康复，哭过，并没有那么快好。见到你，会笑？会躲开？还是会像陌生人般，擦身而过就好了？ 应该没机会知道吧。

崔文翰，我爱你，恨你，讨厌你，想念你，但现在，我要谢谢你，也祝福你可以尽快找到专属于你，最最最最向往的幸福。

Sienzzz....

K, fine. Maybe I am really asking for too much. But, I just wanna spend some time and watch a movie with him or just walk around with him. Plus, the movie I wanna watch is the 2nd part of the 1st movie we watched together. It may be meaningless to every1 but its important for me. Perhaps, he din even know that...

And, we rarely meet and he did ask me to arrange some time so we can go out. Here I did, telling him a week or 2 beforehand that I may go out with him on Friday and he said OK... Who knows, he had to go for training and meet friends. That's not all, why can't he tell me that he had promised his friends??? Instead, he told me that he can only tell me today which is Thursday because of some reasons. WTH, since you edi knew that you had promised to meet your friends, then don't give me lame reasons.

Sometimes I really don't understand. We seldom have chance to meet and yet when we have, you need to care for your pride and ego. What am I? I know, you have your own point and I get it, but sacrificing that once for me can cause you to lose your pride forever???

Yea, she may be a bit over but that does not mean you need to scold her o sort of ask her to get out of the situation in such a way. Cant you say, "Tq for your effort but I hope I can solve it with her myself." Won't it sound much better? Why must make everything worse? Why must you break your promise again? Treating her better means cutting away your flesh? I don't understand. I love both of you and I hope you 2 can get along well, if she can't sacrifice, can you please just tolerate a bit? Just like how I tolerate you?

Seriously, I know I am wrong for not telling you my plans earlier. But you had already stressed that you dun wanna go. I tried to make you go but since you are standing so firmly, I gave up. I planned another way where we can meet and you can do your things. Maybe asking her to do the favor was a wrong choice, but why after I told you about my plans, your answer is you do not know how to face me? Why can't we just sit down and have a talk and solve the problem? Why can't you just let down your ego and come meet me to have a talk?

I am super tired and I do not know how long this will last. We can't be quarreling like this over and over again. I am going to the UK next year, long distance relationship with such unstable base will not last...

Anyway, tomorrow I am going to shop til my leg cramp, sing k til I lose my voice, watch movie and laugh til whole cinema hear me!!! ^^