tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4441218972333187154.post3246382303245843666..comments2023-09-02T04:24:02.755-07:00Comments on My Simple Life: R.I.PSophiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11241852543032691660noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4441218972333187154.post-67353696286235605592009-08-04T09:55:18.324-07:002009-08-04T09:55:18.324-07:00I'm sad to hear this news, but I'm more an...I'm sad to hear this news, but I'm more angry than sad.<br><br>I don't know what happened to the both of you coz i'm still away, but if i relate this to the usual problems you always tell me, this is what I want to say:<br><br>You don't want both parties to hurt, so breaking up was the best solution?<br>That's just more of an excuse.<br>That's running away.<br>And that's selfish.<br><br>Why selfish?<br><br>"I am just tired...<br>I just dun wanna suffer anymore....<br>I just dun wanna get myself hurt anymore...<br>I just dun wanna make and break any promises..."<br><br>Those are the obvious ones.<br><br>"Dun wanna let you lose freedom...<br>Dun wanna let you get hurt anymore...<br>Dun wanna let you lose your original character..."<br><br>Why do you think he lost his freedom, got hurt, and lost his true character? Why?<br>Due to your selfishness, that's why he suffers.<br><br>You knew very well how his character was, and is.<br>A gamer, a person who likes sports and hanging out with friends and all.<br><br>You should have known what to expect when you coupled with him, but maybe you chose to ignore it.<br><br>He knows you know what kind of person he is like, so he thought you like him for who he is.<br>But you dislike the fact that he spends so much of his time playing games and going out with his friends thus less attention for you.<br><br>He couldn't give you the attention you wanted.<br>and that was a mistake on your part. not his.<br><br>I'm not a boy, and I know him only by meeting him a few times and the things you tell me, and i'm more of your friend than his, and you may think that I should be siding you instead of him, but I must say this on his defence, to be fair:<br>Not every bf in this world is programmed to give FULL or MORE attention to their gf. That isn't fair.<br><br>You must understand from his point of view too.<br>I think i do, because I have nearly the same frequency as guys and I know how girls can be so demanding which is so scary.<br><br>I know you are hurting.<br>I know you don't want this to happen.<br>I know I should be comforting you.<br><br>I also know you love him and he loves you too.<br><br>Just that, there's no suitable solution for now.<br>I hope things will get better in time, and during this time, figure things out and find a solution.<br><br>I know you are stronger than this, and I know you will.<br><br>hey, you are smart.<br>And you are the most KIASU person I ever known.<br>You won't lose. You'll get your happiness, and his too.<br><br>start getting to work, you TWO!!<br><br>from,<br>ithinkyouknowmecoz,wth,whoeelseleavesyoucommentsbutme?!<br><br>p/s:I LOVE YOU.<br>pp/s:MH, if you are reading this, good luck. =)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com